What I’ve found over the last decade

• Grey hairs
• Wrinkles
• My inability to tolerate most humans
• An understanding of who I am, who that person in my head is as opposed to the one everyone sees
• What my values are and what I stand for
• Unexpected knowledge of criminal law (England and Wales)
• A broadened musical appreciation
• My partners glasses, keys and mobile phone, many times (they “misplace” things)